Alright.
Instead of simply talking in my head to thin air, as Sands and co. suggested, I'll be directing my thoughts to my tupper, in my head. When they initially told me how do, I believe it were ruffel who said to notice the difference between talking to myself and aiming my thought rockets at my tuppero. I do notice a slight difference, but it is extremely slight.
It'll be a long time before that'll build up to anything noticeably different, I think.
As I said, I'll keep on it, it is valuable info to me and I appreciate the help. I'll roll with it for as long as I can or as long as needs be.
When I started, I pretty much always did this. Is it that you have some problem calling the tulpa out to communicate with it, or directing the thought to proper area. I normally send the message, while the tulpa is within the wonderland, and some sort of visualized loudspeaker that plays throughout it. So that I know the tulpa is listening, and I know that the tulpa heard. Typically now, I find it easier to call the tulpa out by name first, and then relay a message. I noticed after a while that was the quickest most direct way to get their attention. For me at least.
Me: 'Fina.'
Fina: 'Yes.'
Me: 'What do you like about your wonderland?'
Fina: 'Its peaceful. Why are you asking me this?'
Me: 'Oh was did I interrupt something?'
Fina: 'No no, you should have known that already right?'
Me: 'I do, I just needed an example conversation.'
Fina: 'I see.'