As she already feels like a person, I think I want to not force too much on her unless there is a trait that pops up that's not desirable.
Static, you say? Were you using the mismatch hallucination technique I prescribe in my guide?
Also, Scottish and Irish accents are the best. And Northern English dialects.
Maybe you could try bringing candy next time.
As for feeling like you're just talking to yourself, do a little test. How does it feel like when you talk to yourself? How does it feel like when you talk to an object? How does it feel like when you talk to another person? How does it feel like when you talk to a pet? And then, how does it feel like when you talk to the tupper? Obviously, if it feels at all different than talking to yourself, even the slightest, tiniest bit... That might be caused by something, right? Maybe it's because you actually aren't talking to yourself? Otherwise it would feel the same.
I guess you could just ask her to tell you before she does it in case you start getting too worried.
I guess what you want to look for is more along the lines of concentration help than anything.
Is there a reason why you really need/want a wonderland for your forcing sessions, though? Are you using that to visualize the tupper constantly during the session and want to be like, somewhere?
If you want to use it to visualize the tupper's form, you could use any kind of backdrop - or none at all. I used a black void for a long time, for example. Less to keep track of when I wasn't all that good at it, you know? You could also use the real world and just concentrate on seeing the tupper there, it could be an interesting experience as well. Or you could just use their presence rather than their form occasionally.
And working on things one by one isn't a bad idea either. Maybe first concentrate on making it easy for you to talk to the tupper without visualizing them at all, maybe then learning to visualize their body properly before you try to visualize them against a complicated backdrop. Anything that feels like it could work.
Probably. Any good guides for me?
A little sentimental but, I want a place for her to live. You think I'm trying too hard on this, don't you.
So there's like this dude named Fede that thinks you should give it an earnest try or two because he feels you've ignored his precious guide, since it has a bunch of tips and techniques for other stuff about which you've already asked, and there's no way anyone could read a guide like that and then ask about stuff for which it already provides help. And like, that guide spells out a lot of shit for the reader, in spite of the fact that it is nonetheless a guide.
I think it's completely fine to have a home for her in the wonderland; she has a place of her own to stay when she just wants alone time. Having a tupper that's constantly present and seemingly has no life of their own is either unrealistic or really fucked up.
Of course, then there are also the tuppers that have nothing better to do than to watch what the physical body is doing every blinking minute. Vice versa with some hosts doing nothing but watching the body when switching with the tulip, because they also have nothing better to do at all. I'm being serious; that is only what they do.
Open-eyed visualisation feels significantly different from closed-eyed visualisation. It gives one a base for visualising proportions correctly and keep everything stable, whereas everything in your head once your eyes are closed can easily become malformed or disproportionate if you're not good at visualising. Just saying.[/justify]
We quotetrain now.
Well afraid I didn't really turn to any guides myself so I got no personal experience of what's a good guide and what isn't, so I guess I'll leave this to those who have. Or you could just use search-fu and see what sounds good, this is luckily one of those things that isn't just about tuppers so you can find concentration and focus exercises all over the internet.
Nothing wrong with that. But it doesn't mean that just because you have a wonderland, you need to do all your forcing there.
You can change the backdrop, bring the tupper to another place. Nothing's really stopping you. While you're not forcing somewhere else, the tupper can live in the usual wonderland.
Be sure to try open-eyed visualization sometimes too. Or maybe even some early imposition for kicks. You never know what's going to be easier for you before you try.