Reminds me of that almost exact same mindset you presented many posts earlier in this thread about how you seemed to be way more focused on the looks of Miriam and the personality assumed from her form, rather than how her personality was, regardless of her form, or voice, or anything like that. Colonel right now just presented the fact to you that the gender, looks, voice, or things of that sort are not proper grounds for judgement of peoples' character, but I feel you're ignoring this, even if you'll claim that you're not. You seem to be seeking this "pretty girl" based on very scarce information and many assumptions, or even mere hopes.

Note my use of "I feel" and "seem". I'm not trying to state facts here, but rather just present my refutable opinion.

Is it truly possible for a personality to be entirely separate from the form/looks(be it a physical body or an imaginary one), voice, and other characteristics other people can perceive? It seems to me that a person may either try to mold their appearances to match their personality or mold their personality to match their appearances and it's rare for them to be in a complete mismatch. Even if that weren't possible, I would think an entirely formless person without a voice or body to identify with would have a harder time acquiring a personality than one which is embodied (even if we're talking about a virtual body like a tulpa's form).