First thing's first, don't create a tupper to play out your sexual fantasy. You can do that stuff in your imagination without forcing a potentially sapient being into it. If you like it though and just make a tulpa for some other reason, sure, if the tulpa also likes it then go for it. But it's not the reason why you should make one. That's about the only thing I can say to your first thing.
"It's subjective" is an alright way to say it if you really want to. I didn't really see your answer in this thread as that, "go for it, don't think about it too much" is how I read it as and I don't think it's a very good one. Creating a tupper definitely can help the host, yeah. But that help should never be at the expense of the tulpa because again, moralfag, possibly sapient, blah blah sobstory.
Not sure what the thing about knowing the tulpa's answer is about. I did tons of personality forcing and thought I knew my tupper very well, but in the end, I only really started to know who he really was once he started talking back to me. Even now, I could only really guess how he would answer to something before he does. I might be right often because we are pretty close, but surprises happen, too.
Beautiful rainbow.