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Deleted Posts / Re: This makes two
« on: March 30, 2015, 11:13:17 AM »
Super-duper emotional talk, even if it's just you doing the talking. Be honest.

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Tulpa Diaries / Re: abr's diary
« on: March 30, 2015, 11:11:16 AM »
Good to have you here, Abr. Roy? Abr.

There are plenty of resources available for you to check out here while you update your progress, so take a look if you feel like trying something new or getting a new perspective. Can't wait to hear how your tupperware progresses.

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Deleted Posts / Re: This makes two
« on: March 29, 2015, 07:10:51 PM »
Ask tupper to yell at you whenever they feel like it. Then they'll yell at you when you least expect/want it to happen and they'll make you cry. At that point you'll know they're real and that you aren't really crazy.

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Deleted Posts / Re: This makes two
« on: March 29, 2015, 09:54:07 AM »
I believe the term is faggotry, and you'll come to get over it, don't worry. The yell-apologize-make up method is how I got over doubts a lot early on. I'd feel doubtful about one of them, they'd chew me out, and then we'd move on. Hell, I still do it today.

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Tulpa Diaries / Re: Daecher (and friends)'s Growth Log
« on: March 29, 2015, 09:47:59 AM »
Yeah, man. Here's a good tone for newer tulpamancers to use, take a listen:

frt

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Tulpa Diaries / Re: Daecher (and friends)'s Growth Log
« on: March 29, 2015, 01:40:59 AM »
Also, been thinking of working on a guide with Luna and Haya. I don't have much reason to start a diary thread on .info, but I feel like helping people out, instead of just lurking through .info and reddit.

Not sure what it'll be or when it'll be posted- and it probably won't be as thorough and grandiose as Fede's ultimate-whatever-the-hell-it-was- but making a contribution to the community would be nice. Hopefully I won't be spewing shit and actually help someone instead.

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Tulpa Diaries / Re: Daecher (and friends)'s Growth Log
« on: March 29, 2015, 01:10:49 AM »
To expose him to this shit day in and day out?

It'd be entertaining, at the very least.

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Tulpa Diaries / Re: Meromero Days
« on: March 29, 2015, 01:09:43 AM »
Nice to have you here. To be honest, I think elaboration is a great way to get thoughts straight. That, and you'll get a more detailed response from people if you're honest with us.

Narrating about daily life and opinions is a pretty good way to encourage responses from a tulpa, whatever the form may be. Narration can also be incorporated into your everyday activities and be a pretty simple form of passive forcing. Like you described before, some people focus really intensely in active sessions and burn themselves out or do it in large gaps. There are also people whose tulpas progress slowly because all they do is casually toss thoughts their way and expect them to pick up the slack. Personally, I believe that passive forcing can have its own positive effects on development and that time spent passively forcing should be balanced with active forcing (then again, you hardly know me and my preaching about the wonders of passive forcing wouldn't mean shit). The key word here, though, is balance. Make an effort to narrate to your tulpa frequently during the day, and set aside some time for just the two of you when you can. If there's something you feel you want to work on, set aside more time. If you're going to be cramped for time for a few days or a week, squeeze in a little attention on-the-go.

For future reference, take shit I say with a grain of salt. I'm still new to things as far as tulpas go, but I'll throw my two cents in when I can whether anyone wants them or not.

Again, it's nice to meet you, and we're looking forward to hearing more from you.

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Deleted Posts / Re: This makes two
« on: March 29, 2015, 12:29:06 AM »
Looks like progress is being made. Looks good.

As far as words go, you could just sit by yourself and think to her "ping" and ask her to respond with "pong." If you think you made up a "pong" yourself, switch roles- you wait to respond until she pings you, giving her control and helping you improve your attention for her responses. If you think you made up another one, switch again. Repeat until you've consumed a significant portion of your day.

Best case scenario, you start to hear her voice better and then she gets to yell at you for not giving her enough tupper sex. Tuppers seem to like yelling occasionally.

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Tulpa Diaries / Re: Daecher (and friends)'s Growth Log
« on: March 25, 2015, 01:15:27 PM »
Oh, Sands. You have an answer to every question, a solution to every conundrum. Maybe one day I'll have the friend that met Luna swing around here one day. He's not ready yet, I think, but one day.

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Tulpa Diaries / Re: Daecher (and friends)'s Growth Log
« on: March 24, 2015, 01:39:08 PM »
>implying I'm not already fat
>implying I have money to buy enough cake to become fat

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Tulpa Diaries / Re: Daecher (and friends)'s Growth Log
« on: March 22, 2015, 11:08:43 AM »
Time to switch forever and let tuppers eat all the cake.

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Tulpa Diaries / Re: Daecher (and friends)'s Growth Log
« on: March 21, 2015, 12:29:05 PM »
For Luna's birthday, we tested switching for a good portion of the day. More importantly, she had the opportunity to talk to another person in real-life, a friend of mine who's taken interest in tulpas in the past few months. He and I have talked about them now and again, and he was more than happy to meet her. Gotta say, it felt really strange to sit back and watch the afternoon/evening unfold, but I also felt a sense of pride in how she handled things. She ended up in a large group of our friends (only two of which knew what was up), but played it cool and had a great time.

Overall, 10/10 would switch in public again. I don't really concern myself with taking back control by accident at this point, and I'm confident that, with a little more practice, Haya will be able to Just Do It as well as Luna.

And no, there wasn't any cake- didn't have a ride to the market and I'm too fucking lazy to walk.

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Tulpa Diaries / Re: Daecher (and friends)'s Growth Log
« on: March 14, 2015, 10:07:17 PM »
Hmm, not really sure what to say this time around. Luna's birthday is in three days, so there's that. Been working on tactile imposition (focusing on it until I fall asleep at bedtime is interesting). As always, I've been anti-social in regards to forum participation, chats, and the like, but I'm happy with how things are. I find these two incorporated in my daily life more and more, from dull, boring tasks to even the most rigorous study session. We don't talk as much as I'd expected we would way back when I'd hoped I would reach this point, but that's what makes it feel real, I guess- it seems strange to talk for hours and hours on end when there isn't much to talk about. There are often times where I'll just sit quietly with them without any of us saying anything, or I think I feel a hand against mine during the walk across campus in-between classes, and those are the times I feel accomplished. I've got friends, yeah (loud ones, at that), but the company isn't quite the same.

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Off-Topic / Re: Let's Experience Morrowind (With Many Images)
« on: February 19, 2015, 11:00:04 AM »
I'd say go through the whole Hlaalu questline as opposed to skipping forward- loot is loot. Also, haunted areas sound fun. Reminds me of the ghost houses in Super Mario.

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