How would you talk with someone who is mute?

Mute tuppers can also respond in some way.

You could make the imagination game even harder and decide that the mute person is also paralyzed and blind. WHAT WOULD YOU DO roll initiative.

Well you can ask for the stuff, but if it hasn't ever happened before then you're most likely not getting it right away like that. Or perhaps you just can't notice it yet, because it could be super weak. And hell, even when I noticed stuff early on, I wasn't able to connect the dots until much later.

But you're sounding like you have already decided the tupper can't do some of that stuff, which could affect you in a negative way. Once you start mentally blocking possible ways of her contacting you, you're not left with much. Attitude change might help here, instead of "nothing" it's just "not yet". Keep the methods open instead of telling your easily manipulated brain that something doesn't or won't happen. Negative stuff gets stuck super easily and nocebo is a thing.

You can easily hate any kind of method of creating art when you'e not very good at it and can't translate how you want it to look to the real world with your own hands. That's why it might be better to not have a solid idea and instead do something, shaping it as you go. Let your own hands decide how it should look and feel, working with clay should feel nice. At least I think so. Pottery has never been my thing and that's usually the only kind of thing you get to do if you take courses, but I think it's more fun to just make weird little things and statues out of it. Just get out a piece, work it so it's soft and easy to make into something else and start playing with it.

Head pressure would be pretty helpful, so do keep an eye on that and see where it goes.

Sounds to me like you have tons of issues with your parents.

Dunno about you, but our teachers constantly say that school is never the only place for learning and parents must help their kids as well. They do what they can at schools, parents have to do what they can outside of school. Our school systems are very different and there's not much you can do about not being able to go to the good, expensive schools without money... But punishment instead encouraging and helping is never a way to raise a child. You'll only get someone scared of trying to do anything new, someone who will grow to resent their parent(s) and someone who barely has anything to call their own. Not many ways to enjoy life.

And that's something no one deserves in my eyes. Considering you're not even allowed to be who you are and express parts of yourself. Sounds like torture.

Parroting is a valid method. I dunno if there's any method that isn't valid, as this is mostly about making your own mind do weird stuff. Mindset is what is the key and you're going to need some confidence in what you're doing. Try different things and see which one feels the best, it's so personal that none of us will have a similar way of creating tuppers, even if we follow guides.

Well, if you need a break then take a break. Might be a good idea to at least say good morning and good night every day, as that doesn't really take much.

You do have good visualization skills and focus, just not when it comes to tuppers. Perhaps you could involve the tulpa when you have your usual daydreaming sessions by you know, showing it to them. Like you're making them a little play. You could tell them some side comments here and now, but you like to work on the roleplaying characters. I know that feeling, it's different than working on a tupper seeing that you get to control everything about a character while you're sorta aiming for not controlling a tulpa. But it doesn't mean you can't do those things together, even if you're not staring at the tulpa while doing it. They're there with you, more or less always.

Us humans have this funny way of being around other people and thus knowing how people are supposed to work. That's why the uncanny valley effect exists, I guess. You don't have the same amount of familiarity with the pony form, so I guess it makes sense you can work with a human body better. Easier for your brain to fill in the blanks.

Glad to hear that you're starting to enjoy visualization a bit more. This is why I think it's important to try new things. You never know what might work for you and we won't either, any crazy idea you get is worth a shot just in case it does work for you. Keep up the good work, now. Being able to see the tupper could easily help you get to vocality, as at least in my personal experience, body language came before speech. And that can already tell you a lot.