I would wonder if you have unresolved traumas, and I would almost surely believe you do.

The BodyOS doesn't think by definition and does speak but only very automated responses akin to sleepwalkers or someone not paying any attention and just agreeing so you'll go away.
That's the ideal outcome of every conversation. I'd say it's the main goal of the BodyOS. (Pretend to) agree with people so they go away and don't bother me or ask further uncomfortable questions. The BodyOS first and foremost is lazy. It's avoidant. it doesn't like work, it hates trouble, getting criticized or any sort of attention in general. It therefore heuristically predicts appropriate responses and actions that resolve situations with minimal effort. I have perfected this since childhood.

Since earliest childhood I realized I was fundamentally different from those people around me. I never understood what they were about. But I'm not an autist who can't read emotions or intentions, rather the opposite. For me the others are the autists. Dumb inconsiderate brutes who act on instincts and are indifferent or outright  unaware of others feelings. Still you gotta live with and survive among those people so you learn to predict them and respond in words and actions in a way they are the least bother. No consciously but as a habit. I only realized that through tulpamancy.

Due to my high emotional intelligence I excel at mirroring peoples emotions. They generally enjoy talking to me because they feel understood. It's not a lie per se, I experience those emotions, but of course I try to respond in a way that meets their expectations. Because conflict would cause me as HSP far more damage and trauma than them. It's a battle I can't win. I already said it once, in a way I'm an involuntary con artist. I manipulate people into liking and trusting me, not out of criminal intent to scam them but to keep them from hurting me. Well, or bothering me.

I can (appear to) get along well with an extremely wide range of people of all ages, cultures and political orientations. I never had problems abroad, neither with law enforcement, military or armed militias. I've never been robbed or even threatened. I don't provoke aggression from others. But as an introvert, all those interactions are extremely draining to me, even if I like the people. Which is rare. Therefore interaction needs to be minimized and automated. That's what the BodyOS does unconsciously. It's very eloquent, but much like ChatGPT. It sounds great and agrees with you and only if you dig deeper you realize it's all shallow nonsense. Very few people see through this facade. Mostly children.

Alice is a completely different beast. She's the Super-Ego one level above me and 2 levels above the BodyOS. I had originally intended to let Alice do the work of the BodyOS and act as a filter and shield against the world out there but quickly realized I can't do that to my tupper. First it would break her and second, while the BodyOS is too dishonest, Alice is too honest. You should know her well enough to understand it's not the best idea to let her run things. Not because she has bad intentions, but because she has good intentions. It has indirect effects on the BodyOS but I must be really careful it does not drop too many truth bombs in those dire times we live in.

So yeah, there you have it. I'm not proud of having conned myself through most of my life and it's not healthy but it works. I'm afraid there's no simple way to resolve this, just switching off the autopilot is not a good idea if you have never learned to fly.